Welcome to the wedding of Aida and Don.
The ceremony today will follow Persian traditions dating back thousands of years. The ceremony was developed under the Zoroastrian religion. The Zoroastrians believed in a single God, and dedicated to a three-fold path, shown by their motto, ``Good thoughts, Good words, Good deeds.'' One of the first monotheistic religions, Zoroastrianism had a profound influence on Judaism, Christianity and Islam.
The Persian marriage ceremony is used by members of most religions in Persia, as they value it as a symbol of their rich and ancient culture.
The ceremony proceeds as follows. The bride and groom are seated in front of a decorated cloth, called the sofreh-ye aghd.
The decorations symbolise various values and good wishes for the bride and groom. These include:
Once the bride and groom are seated, two female guests hold a piece of fine fabric over the heads of the bride and groom, into which others grind cones of hardened sugar. This symbolises the guests' wishes for all the good and sweet things in their life together.
The celebrant asks the groom, and then the bride if they take the other to be their wife and husband. Twice, the bride will be asked and she will remain silent. Guests may make comments like, ``the bride is thinking,'' or, ``she has gone to pick flowers''. Only on being asked a third time will she answer affirmatively. This indicates that it is the groom who seeks the bride, and that the bride is entering into the marriage wisely.
At this point the bride and groom complete their vows and exchange rings.
The bride and groom then feed each other honey to bring sweetness to their marriage.
Small gifts may be presented to conclude the ceremony. The couple then proceed to sign the marriage register, after which guests are received and photographs taken of the couple and guests around the sofreh.
Before removing the sofreh, the sweets, bread, cheese and herbs are offered to guests.